“We need to talk.”
This statement rarely goes well for men…
… women rarely, if ever, say “We need to talk!”
and then say something that men want to hear, like…
“Honey, I know how much you love making
love… and I’m sorry that I have been ignoring your
needs for touch!
Please forgive me and come to bed right now.
Is that okay with you?”
Not very likely,
So when us men hear those four words…
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WE NEED TO TALK.
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well, quite honestly, we feel a chill go down our
spines and start looking for the emergency exit
while telling ourselves…
“OH NO! What did I do wrong this time?
This isn’t going to go well for me.
She may need to talk, but I need to get
the hell out of here… and fast.
What I need… is to get a drink, or go fishing.
Or get my teeth need to be drilled on without
any pain killer – until this blows over!”
How do you end the TERROR OF TALKING
and turn it around so that your lover looks
forward to TALKING, or at least doesn’t run
from the room.
Join me this Wednesday, Oct 12th and discover
some of these communication secrets:
http://www.magicrelationship.net/freecall
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HOW TO TALK SO THAT YOUR
LOVER WANTS TO LISTEN…
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… and understand you. (even about tough issues)
You will also learn about the LISTENING
SWITCH, and what causes your lover to
shut down (BSW) and turn theirs their
ears off and stop listening to you.
and…
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HOW TO LISTEN SO THAT
YOUR LOVER WANTS TALK…
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…to really open up and speak honestly and
vulnerability. And, so they feel HEARD,
UNDERSTOOD and VALUED.
These are skills anyone can learn, but few
do because we were never taught them.
… and much more. In fact you can get
the study guide at
http://www.magicrelationship.net/freecall
Want to know more and discover some of
the secrets of communication with the opposite
sex.
This is like having a DECODER RING that
translates almost any message into one of
two things.
An ACT OF LOVE or a CRY FOR HELP.
Listen as my guest this Wednesday, Oct 12th.
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THE TURNING POINT
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Some Simple Communication Tools to help
you deal with relationship’s complex issues.
http://www.magicrelationship.net/freecall
Live with passion, purpose and possibility,
Paul Sterling
Your Relationship
and Intimacy Coach
PS. I want to answer your questions on this
call, so make sure to type your MOST BURNING
RELATIONSHIP QUESTION into the special
box when you are saving yourself a space on this
call.
http://www.magicrelationship.net/freecall
PPS. Keep your eyes open for the next email.
I will talking about WHY MOST RELATIONSHIPS
FAIL… and what you can do about it.
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