let me tell you a story about how this got started…
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THEY WERE STUCK!
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Bob and Sarah (names changed for confidentiality) are a very successful couple that work together as relationship coaches…
…so when they got stuck in the middle of a painful communication breakdown in their own relationship, they were frustrated, disappointed and even a little embarrassed. No matter what they tried, they couldn’t work it out.
They got this started when they reached out and asked for help… even though guys sometimes have a hard time asking for help (sort of like asking for directions). But Bob got behind Sarah’s request because their relationship breakdown was having a huge impact on the quality of their lives…
Not only did it impact them, it also impacted their kids and impacted their ability to work together…. and consequently, their ability to help their clients.
That’s a lot of impact!
Sarah called me saying hey needed my help and they needed it now. She wanted something that was POWERFUL, EFFECTIVE and QUICK. They had set aside ONE DAY from their very busy work schedule to learn my compassionate communication tools.
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THEY NEEDED A TURNING POINT.
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It was going to be a challenge as I’m used to teaching these tools in a two or three day workshop with much larger groups. I have taught these tools to a wide variety of people ranging from couples like you, to counselors and therapists who work with couples, to university professors, to prison inmates (no joke)…
I also coach couples from all around the world over the phone.
But this was a very new format…
So as a special favor for my friends, I put together a private, personalized one day program, just for them. On this day, we went through the Compassionate Communication Principles.
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WE PUT THEIR NEW SKILLS TO THE TEST.
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Then followed them up with exercises, practice and put what they learned to the test with some intense ‘role playing’. In other words have them talk about important emotional issues that would normally trigger them.
As we worked through the day, you could hear when an new insight hit home.
It went like this, “ah ha” – “Oh shit” – “No wonder” – “I didn’t know I did that” – “I’m soooo sorry, that must have been painful” – “Now I see why you were so hurt and pissed off” – “No wonder you didn’t want to help me” – “No wonder you wanted to sleep in the guest room”
It was an amazing day and truly “THE TURNING POINT’ for them and their communication. (I’m thinking of keeping this name if I release the program).
Don’t get me wrong… I’m not saying that they solved all of their relationship issues in a single day… or that they learned everything I had to teach about communication. What I gave them the specific tools, techniques and training they needed to turn the corner and start heading in a new direction.
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HERE IS SOMETHING I DIDN’T EXPECT.
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That day together had such a powerful impact on their lives that Sarah and Bob started talking. They told their clients about what I did for them and this lead to me getting e-mails and phone calls requesting information about this new relationship coaching program called ‘THE TURNING POINT’.
All of sudden there was this buzz and excitement about this new ‘Relationship Program’.
The problem was, there wasn’t really ‘a program’…
…It was a one time training I did for my friends, but once there were enough e-mails and phone calls, I started thinking, it might be time to offer this to my clients and to the readers of my Compassionate Commutation Newsletter.
Maybe a should create and provide a personalized, private, confidential and powerful training that would last a one or two day and be customized for each couple.
Let me tell you in advance, if I create this program…
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IT WON’T BE CHEAP, AND IT’S NOT FOR EVERYONE.
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…in fact you’ll have to qualify to get into it, partly because we’ll be working so closely together and I want to make sure our personalities are a match… (translated, that means if you aren’t any fun to work with, I’m not going to want work with you… and… if you don’t think I’m fun to work with, you won’t want to work with me!)
I also want to make sure you’re committed to learning and applying what I have to teach to your relationship and your life, otherwise it’s just a waste of our time.
In addition, it would be irresponsible of me and frustrating for you if both people in your relationship are not ready, willing and able to make the needed changes to turn things around.
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I AM SORRY!
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I would like to apologize in advance, because of how much personal attention I will be giving each couple and because I already have a busy schedule, I am going to have to limit this to 10 totally committed couples.
The problem is the last time I checked there were 8,807 people on my e-mail list so I will setting up some clear qualifications in advance so that I don’t get overwhelmed with requests to get into this first program.
I will keep you posted.
So… if you are interested in getting on the beta test program, you may want to be on my priority (first to know) waiting list. If so, just go to www.MagicRelationship.net/tpc and enter your name and email. That way, if this program happens, you will be one of the first to know and be considered.
Live with passion, purpose and possibility,
Paul Sterling
Relationship and Intimacy Coach
PS. Keep your eyes open, I will be giving you more details on ‘The Turning Point’ relationship coaching program and what the qualifications will be for taking part in this program . I will also let you know what compassionate communication secrets were revealed to Sarah and Bob… Again, to be on my priority (first to know) waiting list just go to www.MagicRelationship.net/tpc
PPS. This is an obvious but often overlooked fact:
“THE QUALITY OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP is based on THE QUALITY OF YOUR COMMUNICATION… when that communication falls apart, so does your relationship!”
IF… you believe that’s true, which it is, THEN… the best way to improve your relationship is to improve your compassionate communication skills.
PPPS. If you want to get started today in creating more intimacy, understanding, and open and honest communication in your relationship, I have two suggestions and some simple tools to help with relationships complex issues.
1) the first is my e-book called ‘STOP… In The Name of Love’. Let me tell you in advance, I never claimed to be a great writer, I just claim to have some great information for turning your relationship around. This book may be the $19.95 you ever spent on your love life. Print it out and start reading it to each other tonight www.MagicRelationship.net/ebook
2) The second suggestion is a set of live recordings I did. There are three parts – the first is ‘Stop Pushing Your Lover Away – 5 Common Communication Mistakes’ – the second is ‘4 Steps to Creating Almost Instant Intimacy – the third is ‘7 Keys To Building a Bright Future With Your Lover’. This program is $97.00 and you will want to listen to it again and again. I have it on my ipod and still listen to it myself when I need a reminder. www.MagicRelationship.net/mp3